About
The Woman Behind the Charts
I am April. Everything else is a modifier.
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I created Her SoftPower Astrology after watching brilliant, beautiful Black women give everything to the wrong men and walk away exhausted. I knew the problem was never them. It was the strategy.
I started using astrology to help my friends (and myself) vet better, love smarter, and attract men who pour back. Around here, we do not chase, perform, or settle. We learn our patterns, know our power, and date like the prize we are.
Because every woman deserves to be respected, protected, provided for, and prioritized. Especially Black women.
The Real Story
In the thick of my marriage, I kept wondering if other people felt the same way. Was this what love really is. I was emotionally and physically exhausted. I stayed home with two young kids and was severely overwhelmed, but not willing to talk about it. I thought I was not handling life right.
Astrology was always there. Since I was a kid flipping through YM magazine to read my horoscope. Then a book on birthdays. Then a book on Black love and Sun signs. Then one day I learned about birth charts and it totally unlocked something in my head. The more I learned the more I wanted to learn.
Curiosity turned into strategy. My first mission was to decode my boyfriend at the time. And I did. I unlocked his heart and wallet and I was able to do it without losing myself because I finally understood and accepted myself.
Before that, I tried to conform to everyone else so they could see I was a prize. Deep down I felt like I was special. And if I performed in the way they liked they would see it too. I did not understand why I was open to unconventional relationships. I hated authority when I believed it was stupid or incompetent. I hated being on anyone’s schedule, but I loved being of service to others.
What changed everything was getting into a relationship with my current partner. Before him I was dating and having a ball. Nothing felt quite right. But he made me feel everything I had been missing in all my years. Friendship, fun, laughter, safety, shared values, understanding, freedom. All of it felt like fresh air and I know I never want to be without that feeling.
The charts do not lie. They teach. And the life I have built is not random. It is all written. My story is your story. And every book I create is a map. Not to become someone new, but to come home to who you always were.
What I Believe
There are no bad placements. You do not need to overcome them. You learn to work with them and use them to their highest benefit while understanding the pitfalls to look out for.
Softness and strategy are not opposites. You need both. That is the whole point.
Astrology tells other women what their placements mean. I tell you what to do with that knowledge.